We
are neither a Las Vegas style wedding chapel nor a rent-a-church!
Our principal concern, in fact, is not at all with the day of your
wedding but rather with the years of your marriage. We are, however,
very open and encouraging of your consideration of using our beautiful
building as the site of your wedding. We do not see our building as
in any way being “ours!” It is God’s building and,
therefore, open to you and all of God’s People for use.
Our one requirement, because of our concern for the quality of your
future marriage, is that you participate in pre-marriage counseling.
You can either do this counseling through Fr. Bob, our Rector, or with
any other clergyperson of a recognized Christian denomination that
you might wish to conduct your wedding ceremony.Our general advice
is that if you are not currently active in a church where you live
that you become active. It is the clergyperson of the church that
you are active in who should do your pre-marriage counseling and conduct
your marriage ceremony if at all possible. If you choose to have Fr.
Bob “do” the wedding you need to know that pre-marriage
counseling usually involves three or four sessions and the use of
“PREPARE: A Pre-Marriage Inventory” that has been developed
by the U. of Minnesota. Most couples find that they are typically
traveling to Galena at least that many times as they prepare for their
weddings. Appointments are often on Saturdays. Our current Rector very
much emphasizes that the couple being married are the chief “celebrants”
in the wedding service and that it is their preferences, not the clergy
person’s, which should decide the character of the wedding ceremony.
The first time the Rector gets together with a couple most of the time
is spent discussing the various possibilities for their wedding that
the couple might want to choose from out of different alternatives.
It is preferred that arrangements be made at least six months prior
to the intended date of the marriage. If one or both of you have previously
been married it is preferred that arrangements be made eight months
in advance.
Our church seats about 170 persons but with extra seating can hold
up to 210 with ease. Our chapel holds 25 comfortably. The building
is air-conditioned and handicapped accessible. It was completely restored
in 2001 at a cost in excess of $450,000. This renovation included
the installation of new and comfortable cherry wood pews, carpet,
and the installation of two bathrooms, repainting, new lighting, a
sound system, and the rebuilding of our 1836 Erben tracker pipe organ.
Our organist is available to play for your wedding and we can arrange
for numerous other musicians such as harp, trumpet, string players
or vocal soloists dependent on your needs. Typically you would meet
with the organist after some Sunday service and choose your music
from various selections she might play for you or that you have in
mind. You can be as elaborate or as simple as you desire in your use
of flowers or other greenery to decorate the church. We do ask that
you fill the vases at the altar with cut flowers that will remain
in the church after the wedding for Sunday services at which time
prayers for your marriage will be offered. Parking for large weddings
can be a problem in Galena. Many couples choose to use the readily
available trolleys to transport the wedding party and/or guests from
a central motel/hotel where they have parked their cars in order to
relieve any potential parking problems. Photos can be taken before
or after the ceremony but not during it except from the back of the
church and without the use of flash attachments. Many competent florists
and photographers are available in the Galena area as are a whole
range of interesting places for wedding receptions. Our Parish House,
which is located across the street from the church, is available for
catered receptions for small weddings only.
Church members need pay nothing to be married at Grace Church. Non-members
are expected to pay a usage fee of $375 for building upkeep. It’s
ordinarily expected that a couple pay a personal honorarium of not
less than $150 to Grace’s priest. This compensates him/her for
the time they spend counseling, participating at the rehearsal and
wedding, and for time spent on a homily presentation. Our priest’s
are part-time and are not paid for doing weddings on non-members.
Our ourganist charges $100 to play for a rehearsal and wedding and
$125 if she must accompany a soloist. If our Rector is not involved
in the wedding you will have to use our “Wedding Coordinator”
at a charge of $50 and make a $100 refundable security deposit to
cover any cleaning or breakage that might occur. Painful experiences
have shown us that these extra charges are necessary. |